Afghanistan wedding ceremony 

An Afghan wedding ceremony is a significant and joyous event that reflects the rich cultural traditions and values of the Afghan people. It is a multi-day celebration filled with various rituals, customs, and festivities. Here's a description of a typical Afghan wedding ceremony:

1. **Pre-Wedding Rituals**:

   - **Arranged Marriages**: In many Afghan communities, marriages are arranged by the families. The couple often has limited input in the selection of their partner.

   - **Engagement**: Prior to the wedding, an engagement ceremony takes place where the couple exchanges rings in the presence of their families and close friends.

2. **Henna Night (Henna Ghar)**:

   - One or two nights before the wedding, the bride's hands and feet are adorned with intricate henna designs in a separate ceremony known as "Henna Night."

   - The bride and female guests often wear colorful traditional Afghan dresses.

3. **Nikah (Wedding Ceremony)**:

   - The main wedding ceremony, known as Nikah, takes place in a mosque or at the bride's home.

   - The couple and their families gather, and an Islamic scholar conducts the religious ceremony.

   - During Nikah, the couple exchanges vows and signs the marriage contract (Aqd-nikah).

4. **Sofreh Aghd (Wedding Spread)**:

   - After the Nikah, a lavish reception is held, usually at a banquet hall or the bride's home.

   - The Sofreh Aghd is a decorative spread featuring symbolic items, such as a mirror (symbolizing eternity), candles (representing light and happiness), and sweets (for a sweet life).

   - Guests bring gifts and place them on the Sofreh Aghd.

5. **Feasting and Dancing**:

   - Afghan weddings are renowned for their delicious feasts. Traditional dishes like kebabs, pilaf (pulao), and Afghan bread (naan) are served.

   - Live music and dance performances, including the Attan dance, are a highlight of the celebration. The Attan is a traditional Afghan dance involving synchronized movements.

6. **Dressing Traditions**:

   - The bride typically wears a stunning, elaborate bridal dress known as a "Jorah" or "Ferak," often in vibrant colors like red or green, along with heavy jewelry and a veil.

   - The groom wears a traditional Afghan suit, which includes a long shirt (Perahan tunban) and pants (shalwar).

7. **Guest Attire**:

   - Guests usually dress in their finest traditional clothing, reflecting the cultural diversity of Afghanistan. Men may wear Pashtun or Afghan suits, while women wear colorful dresses.

8. **Gift-Giving and Blessings**:

   - Guests offer gifts, money, and blessings to the newlyweds as a symbol of support and good wishes for their future life together.

9. **Post-Wedding Celebrations**:

   - In some regions, the celebrations continue for several days with more feasts, music, and dancing.

   - The newlyweds may visit the groom's family or receive visits from friends and relatives.

10. **Parting Ceremony**:

    - As the bride leaves her family's home to join her husband's family, a tearful and emotional parting ceremony takes place, known as "Rukhsati."

An Afghan wedding is not only a union of two individuals but also a celebration of culture, family, and community. It is a vibrant and memorable occasion that reflects the deep-rooted traditions and values of Afghan society.